Israel Helfand is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a Certified Sex Therapist. He is one of the co-founders of Marriage Quest and has over 30 years of experience supporting couples through difficult conversations on marriage and sexuality. He’s appearing on radio and televisions shows and has been interviewed by numerous newspapers and magazines. He is currently working on his book called Confessions of a Sex Therapist.
In the aftermath of an affair, both partners can struggle with difficult and conflicting emotions. It may not be obvious what is the right thing to do or say when dealing with hurt, loss, and betrayal. Assuming you are in a monogamous relationship, infidelity is a sign that something is broken in your relationship. In…
If you just discovered that your spouse had an affair you might be feeling hurt or angry and wondering what to do. Many people who have discovered that their spouse was involved in some kind of infidelity think that their marriage is now over and that they are heading towards a separation and divorce. …